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Stories have a beginning, middle, and end, right?
Well, it’s a little a lot more nuanced than that.
In this article, I break down the crucial ingredient stories must have: perspective change.
What Not To Do
Consider these story points:
- There’s a doctor who works with cancer patients
- He advises older patients not to get surgery
- But has difficulty convincing them surgery isn’t necessary
Is that a story?
There’s a beginning, middle, and end…
- (Beginning) We define a character: “There’s a doctor…”
- (Middle) The character does something: “He advises older patients…”
- (End) And experiences a challenge: “But has difficulty…”
But that’s it. So what? What now?
What To Do
Great stories involve a character going through a series of challenges and coming out the other side, transformed. Great stories have moments where the character’s perspective is changed.
Check out how Charles Duhigg, bestselling author of “Supercommunicators” tells this story:
- There’s a doctor who works with cancer patients
- He advises older patients not to get surgery
- But has difficulty convincing them surgery isn’t necessary
- *He realizes the way he communicates to patients is the problem*
- He takes steps to better understand his patients and improve his communication
The character thought one way before. Bam! Something happened.
Now they think a different way.
Most importantly, the character’s change in perspective inspires YOUR change in perspective:
“Oh, might that be true in *my* life?”
“Do I believe I’m doing something right…but really *I’m* the problem?”
“If I *am* the problem, I should take similar, proactive steps…”
You didn’t feel lectured at or condescended to. No one had to explicitly say: “You should develop self-awareness and self-discipline”.
The story incepted its lesson into your mind through the experience of a relatable character.
Summary
Stories are vehicles for lessons about living a good life (or avoiding a bad one). By showing:
- [Things were bad before for a character]
- [Character has an “aha” moment]
- [Things were better after for the character]
You subtly show the audience:
- [This is how you shouldn’t think]
- [This is the recommended change in perspective]
- [This is how you benefit from it]
To tell stories people remember and find meaningful, highlight the moment of perspective change.
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